March 9th, 2017 → 5:35 am @ Lea // No Comments
“There is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so.” – Hamlet
My six year old son loves it when I take an afternoon off to join him for lunch at school. I generally bring Jimmy John’s sandwiches, blue Gatorade, and Kit Kat candy bars for dessert, and every time I go I get the biggest hug from him afterwards. Usually he asks me that very night when I can come again. Recently, because of an injury, I hadn’t joined him at the school for nearly four months. So I asked him last week, would you like me to visit you at school for lunch soon? His immediate response: “Will you bring the crutches too?”
The disabled person in me was crushed. The mother in me understood. The human rights activist in me wanted to protest and explain. I paused for a minute before simply asking my son if he didn’t want me to go. “No,” he said, “I want you to come.”
So, I did. I hobbled into his school, carrying our contraband take-out lunch in a napkin-lined backpack, and acted like nothing was amiss. In the end, my son did too. I even got my enormous hug after we ate and before he ran outside for recess. I don’t know if my son was embarrassed by me, but I’m pretty sure he has the strength of character not to care too much. What I know for certain: he loves me, and I love him more than he will ever know.